Showing posts with label Online Romance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Online Romance. Show all posts

10 Ways to avoid internet (dating) cheating!

In this cyber world how things could be changed you never know. Friends can become foes overnight. You may not imagine how your known person can hurt you. But there are ways to avoid such hurt. You have to be very careful when you wish to involve with someone on net.

10 ways are discussed here, following which you can avoid internet (emotional) fraud.

1. The basic for internet is never share your secrets such as personal information, email address, phone number, home address, photos, videos, job address, credit card number etc with an unknown person/stranger.

2. Never give your email address and phone number to any unknown/dubious website.

3. Think twice before you share very personal information and photos with your friends in social blog site such as Orkut, Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, Hi5 etc.

4. Don't accept any friend request from an unknown person. Scraping should be limited to only friends,

5. Be careful when you chat over messengers like MSN, Yahoo, Skype etc. Don't click the unknown link, it could be spam, could be embarrassing for you. Don't put your personal information in public chat room.

6. Webcam should be used only with the person you know well. Never use webcam with your distant friend whom you know only over internet.

7. Don't rush to anyone who uses tempting words and gorgeous photos in his/her profile. He/she may use fake information.

8. Control your emotion when you meet an unknown person on internet. You may be exploited if you are over emotional.

9. Never share your password with any of your friends, even trusted friends. There is a tendency among some young people to exchange password to show their trust. This is not good for a healthy realtionship. Everyone has her/his very personal things.

10. Think thrice before meeting your online date in person. Try to cross check her/his identity before meeting. If meet, meet in an open place.

Dating Trends: Dark side of online romance!

Online dating is a common phenomenon nowadays. Now cyber savvy people can't think a day without internet. Dating is not only limited to young people but also matured persons. Online dating is very popular to the educated young people including teenagers. easy access to internet made this type of dating popular. I am talking about dating which involves emotion. Making friends online is fine but making love over internet is sometimes very dangerous. Many people are there in the Cyber world whose intention is to exploit girls/boys. mainly girls are the victimes of internet dating. We can see many examples of this kind of miseries of girls especially from conservative societies.

People usually engage over internet are not intended to become life partners but they pretend to be like that. I think girls are more emotional than boys. So when they have any emotional relationship with anyone then they are somehow blind about that guy. They are ready to do virtually anything for their partners. may be they are innocent. Yes, girsl easily trust their boyfriends. This is the mistake they make even on internet.

Well, internet dating is sometimes dangerous because in many cases opposite partner is unknown. Geographic location, religion, culture, education etc may be different. You never know if the person you are talking to is lying or not. Even a known person can cheat you over internet foe patty interest.

It is a common perception that young people when talk internet talk about love and sex more than any other topics. That's the problem for both the partners. When two partners talk about love and sex days after days they may be tempted to exchange photos and adult contents. Instant messengers and webcam are the easiest way to do such thing. When a girl show her sensitive photos to her boyfriend and share live talks over webcam, she may bring miseries in her if the boyfriend betray. There are lots of examples of webcam scandals are available on cyber world. Girls should be aware of that.

Teenagers can easily be exploited over internet. Matured guys can exploit teenage girls. it is the duty of guardians to check if their children are addicted to internet chatting and even love making. Sharing secrets to an unknown guy can be dangerous for a teenage girl.

Bottom line:

Internet is an easy and cost saving way to interact with people. Everyone should use it for good purpose. exploiting others is a crime. Cyber law should be applied to deal with such crime.

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